Sunday, February 8, 2009

Things I Do Not Understand....

Ok, I haven't written one of these blogs in a long time, but I figured it was time because I have been baffled by something. However, unlike my other "Things I Do Not Understand" blogs, this one is a little more serious.

I do not understand why people feel the need to be mean and think its totally okay. Then when their friends begin to pull away, they freak out and don't get it. I don't understand why anyone would think that just because something is true (in their mind at least), that it needs to be said. Clearly, that is not the case. Can't you just keep your mouth shut? I have been wrestling with this for a long time. Why the heck would anyone think its okay to say things that are blatantly mean for no reason? Are you so insecure that putting people down makes you feel better? Maybe if you were nicer to people, you would have more friends... maybe if you had more friends, you wouldn't be so insecure?

My mom once told me that you attract more flies with honey than with vinegar. How true that is.


This is something I don't understand. BE NICE! :)



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